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If you love something set it free
If it doesn’t come back it was never yours
If it returns it is yours forever         --------    Doug Horton

So you are confident on your love. It can never get it better anywhere else. Let it fly away and find out for itself. It will soon learn its lesson and return back to you.

Mind you by the time it comes back you could have got over it and wouldn’t want it back anyway. I know  I know you loved it in the first place and love is supposed to last forever. Ok, the love may still be there but the desire can die and the longing to be together can subside. The fun and laugh that had changed to sadness and depression by its implied rejection of you by wondering off is not significant to damage you? Should it be that easy to accept it when it returns as if nothing has changed? Some how I don’t think so.

In theory Doug Horton’s idea is an example of true love and confidence. It would work if you have accepted the other person’s weakness and lesser love for you. By allowing them to find their own way back you might get their total love back but what if you are not as strong and generous as to accept a second place? After all if they had found someone better would they have come back?