butterflyuk

If a mirror is cracked it should be thrown away. If you try and patch it up it doesn’t give a complete reflection like it did before.

I have always said that once you leave something and move on it is foolish to go back to it because you can never find it the way it was. It is even worse when it wasn’t easy in the first place.

If you patch up the personality differences I am sure over the time they will resurface. People don’t change completely no matter how much we like to think they do.

We still fall for the temptation of getting back to where we started from. Whatever kept us drawn to that person is still there and the opportunity to grab it again is not easy to let go. This is how the circle starts again. You start off smitten and elated. Hoping that whatever was wrong the first time is corrected and every thing will be rosy. Then the little arguments, differences and hurts start to reappear. You get upset and angry and you are back to where you left off the first time round.

Oh well…you might learn the second time round that this is how it is going to be and either you throw away the mirror when it is broken or get used to looking at the disfigured image the cracked mirror gives.